Why Monogamy Is Hot

Conversely, there are some men and women out there who want to have two or more partners in their life because to them, sticking with one person for your entire life seems too monotonous and boring. But even though a lot of people see monogamy as something dull, there will be moments when you can say that monogamy is hot. Being monogamous can actually guarantee you a happy and healthy relationship with your partner. It is just the right thing for anyone. There is no need to feel that you should have another partner than the one you already have. Having just one partner forever is not as tedious and too drab as you think it is.

Some of them even make conformity with their partner to have an open relationship or they become swingers. Changing partners was actually thought to make the relationship more exciting at times. To almost everyone, seeing other people could probably pick up the failing relationship. Yet, this can actually lead to a messy and a very unhealthy life. To show you why it's hot to have a monogamous relationship, here are the reasons why:

1. It is really unhealthy - HIV is one of the most spread out sexual problem we are having nowadays. Aside from that, you can also have Herpes, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Chlamydia, and other distressing and unbearable diseases. You can actually acquire these mostly by having multiple sexual partners; this of course, can harm once health. But when a couple is devoted to each other and they don't do sex with other people, they can totally avoid these health problems. You can't be hot if you are lying in bed like a rotting vegetable, right?

2. Attachment to another can hurt the relationship. - This actually is true even if you had only a sexual relationship to other parties. Thus, making your partner hurt and confused. This eventually leads to a break - up. It is commonly known that love triangles can evidently lead to destruction or even cause one to claim a life. When you're dead, there's no hotness in you...coz you're cold.

3. Exclusivity - Exclusivity can make sex intimate and private. It gives value to sex which added more emotional involvement thus making it really hot to be monogamous. Most of us dreamt of having exclusivity all our life, this is our ideal aspiration: one life-long friend, one woman, one wife, and one completely prefect family. Of course that is idealistic yet that is how we dreamt about it since puberty. That's why monogamy is the ideal form of relationship.

4. Gen 2:24 - "Therefore a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and they become one flesh." For religious people, this is enough proof that monogamy should be followed. God's words are way too important. Aside from that, the bible said about one flesh, can we possibly tear one flesh apart? Of course we can. But it will definitely cause pain, trauma, and a scar that takes time to be removed.

5. Longer life - There was a theory that married couples live longer. What can be better than that? It is said that the reason behind it is because people with a caring partner can get adequate sleep, eat well, rest fully or go to the doctor when necessary.

6. Trust - One of the most important things in a relationship is trust. The trust that you develop in a relationship is healthier because it eliminates layers of stress and anxiety that usually can be developed when one knows that his partner is lying or cheating.

7. Valuable precious moments - If you have a monogamous relationship, precious moments won't be wasted. Aside from that, wouldn't it be nice to show your grandchildren someday how hot grandma and grandpa were and still are?

Monogamy can be hot if you'll look at it that way.