When Will He Commit? 3 Tips on How to Make a Guy Commit Most Women Will Never Know

Trying to get a guy commit to you can seem to be an exercise in futility. Why is that women seem to be ready for commitment way before guys are? And what can you do to make him feel the same exact way about you and make him feel ready to commit to you? Well, if you try to do what most women end up doing, you are going to drive him away from you, not bring him closer. You need to discover what it is that makes a guy want to commit and make sure that you go about it the right way.

Here are 3 tips on how to make a guy commit that most women will never know (but you will):

1. A man will commit to a woman that knows how to communicate with him without making him feel worn down.

Ask any guy about communicating with his girlfriend and you will most likely see him roll his eyes as if to say, not that again. See, guys communicate on a different wavelength than women, and if you don't get to a point where you can reach him on his wavelength, there is little chance that he is going to want to commit to you. Men are less about the details and more about the facts when they communicate. Remember this and keep it in mind when you are talking to a guy, if you want to have him feel like you are the one for him.

2. Make him think of you as being a woman that knows how to have fun with him and he will be ready.

One of the things that makes most guys a little hesitant about settling down, is the idea that things will get really boring. No one wants to end up in a boring relationship, and you can alleviate any fears that he might have of this, by being the one woman that knows how to have a good time with him. He will see you as being a source of good things in his life, and will be a lot more likely to feel excited about the prospects of settling down into a committed relationship with you.

3. Let him feel as if there is no real pressure on him, but that you also will not always just be there.

This is one of those things that you need to find a balance with, because putting too much pressure on him to make a decision is going to end badly for you more often than not. At the same time, if there is no pressure at all, he might just feel like you will always be there and not feel any urgency to make a decision.