How To Get A Guy To Commit - The Solution To Why Guys Can't Manage To Commit Here

Why can't a guy just commit? Are you aware of the biggest fears guys have about committing? What if you could get rid of these fears they have and make commitment very easy? What it boils down to, is that you can't make anyone do something they don't want. So don't try, because it's not worth not being completely there in the relationship, it's just no fun. The best possible thing you can do to make him commit is to be the best person you can, and be understanding, fun and encouraging to him. So let's look at the biggest fears men have about commitment:

Fear of loss of their freedom-

Guys love to have it their way. They enjoy the freedom of getting to decide how they want to live their life. It makes things enjoyable and exciting for them. They get tired and bored very easily and have an attention span that is almost zero. So settling down with one person can be a very difficult task for them. Knowing this, try to make it clear to him that you won't get in the way of his desire for enjoyment and excitement. In fact, be in his life and enrich it by making him feel more enjoyment and more excitement. To do this, don't be nagging, and don't be controlling of him. Show him that you have a wild side. Be spontaneous, don't be jealous by some of his interests and pleasures. Compliment him on the things that give him pleasure, so that he feels in complete comfort in your company. At the same time, the best way to not interfere with his life and fully enjoy yourself, is to improve in your own life, by growing and expanding yourself. If your man sees that you are looking for enjoyable ways to fulfill your life, he will feel at complete ease and develop a strong trust and confidence that you wont deprive him of the much needed space that he wants.

Fear That The Benefits Are Not As Good As The Demands

Guys generally avoid women who are too much to maintain. A woman could be the most strikingly beautiful women in the world, but if her demands are too high, he will not bother to pursue her. Men put forth a good effort to please their lady the best they can, but he has to know that their is a reward for putting in the hard work.

Let him know that he is appreciated for the little things he does for you. Communicate exactly what you want and what you need, and don't send any confused messages. When a guy knows exactly what pleases you, he will be much more likely to do it. Make yourself understandable to him.

Fear Of Losing Attraction-

At the beginning, things are always spicy. There is a strong attraction, and great feelings of excitement and enjoyment as there is a lot of mystery to uncover, and things to discover about each other. This can wear down after sometime when all things are revealed and the element of surprise goes down. So, to avoid from this happening, show your guy that you can keep things exciting and juicy. Surprise him often with enjoyable, fun activities. Don't do it to the point of irritating him, but send romantic texts or make phone calls.