Relationships and How To Find My Soulmate

As the waters of the sea wander over the sands exposing cleanliness as it returns to its greater mass it reminds us how we need to grow by letting go of curious oddities like illusions of permanency. Nothing stands still and as magical as a new relationship is with its unique mysteries the couple has to evolve because there is no growth in permanency.

We strive for the one and only and we desire to be loved as one alone but that in itself is restrictive because life is about being exposed to possibilities. When we desire our proverbial soulmate, we may have illusions of the meaning it represents unless we know who we are thus when we are exposed in all our frailty we discover our truth attracting our corresponding equivalent.

It is impossible to be rescued by our soulmate in the form of another person because we have to be our first true love. In essence, you are your own soulmate before any other may fill those shoes but may if you have completed your soul searching. If you are attached to possessions then release your dream of attaining your true love because your narrow focus prevents them from ever coming into view.

The laws of attraction are touted as the magical presenters of all one desires but are not alone in achievements or endowment of gifts because there are many laws working side by side and each has its part to play. You may not bear false witness to your essence in an effort to camouflage truth while expecting blindness by the laws because that is never going to happen.

Every one is frail and every one is strong but none are devoid of imperfections, thus if you seek love define where your loyalties reside. Only then will your discovery allow what is covered to be uncovered allowing your direction to be planned. Relationships built on sexual intimacy and relationships built on materialism have failed before they commence and you shall know why if and when you enter a voyage of self-discovery.

When we say the words 'he or she makes me happy', we are formally deluding ourselves into thinking our happiness rests in the hands of another. In fact, the opposite is true because we are the guardians of our lives and we may only compliment another when and if we have successfully completed our inventory that uncovers our essence in all its gory and wonderful details.

You may not want to hear this but it is true and if more souls successfully completed this analysis there would be fewer tears and broken hearts. Love is about triumph and it is about changing me not changing the other person, then success is pleasurable. In love, we have to make room for the vagaries of the other person and this is quite difficult especially if we have anal tendencies but if our hearts are true then we will oblige lovingly.

Permanency is a two-edged sword requiring continuity of the relationship but also continuity of growth and if the former is especially pleasurable then the latter will be the juice that shall keep the wheels in motion. While love is the axle growth is the food that nurtures evolution and permanency and when you next think of your soulmate you shall know it is not an illusion but truth.

True love is receptive to sincerity of intent matched with absoluteness of purpose to grow and only become complimentary when you embrace uniqueness for what it is while allowing other moments to emerge. To be a soulmate with permanency refrain from being a slave to posturing and ambiguity then you shall enjoy the company of your soulmate and there will be no doubt as to authenticity. God bless!