Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Afraid He's Never Going to Marry You?



It is awful when you have the feelings of being uncertain about a man's love and commitment. I understand exactly how this feels.

Fear and panic over his apparent lack of commitment can leave you completely frustrated and at your wits end.

Feeling like your back is up against the wall when you can have all of the love you know you deserve because your man isn't stepping up to give you the attention, security and commitment you deserve can create a sense of low self-worth. You may begin feeling that there is something is wrong with you. Maybe you are wondering what can you do to make your man commit and take your relationship to the next level.

What I'd like to share with you today is that talking to your man about giving you a deeper commitment won't work. Your man won't magically turn around because you pour out your feelings to him. In fact, you may already tried this and wonder why he's not responding to you the way you'd like.

This is because he won't make a deeper commitment to you or marry you based on how long you've been together or that he's exclusive with you. In order for your man to make a commitment, he has to feel it in his gut. Has to know beyond a shadow of doubt that you truly are the one for him. Feelings won't bring him there but appealing to his emotional mind will.

If you don't understand how to appeal to his emotional mind, it will be very difficult for you to win him over and have a deeper commitment. You can get him to commit when you get inside his emotional mind.



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