How to Make Him Want to Commit to a Relationship With You

As you already know, men are not inclined to want to make that commitment to a relationship as easy as women are. Some say it is a matter of genetic programming, others say it's just the way it is, it really doesn't matter. What matters is, you want to be able to make a man feel like he really wants to commit to you and you want to feel that incredible feeling that comes with having a committed relationship.

How can you make him feel that way so that he thinks of you as being a woman he wants to share his life with, a woman he wants to come home to?

Here are some tips on how to make him want to commit to a relationship with you that will make things a lot easier on you:

1. Men do not like to feel as though they are being forced into a situation.

If you give him the vibe or the impression that you are trying to force him into it, his natural reaction and response is going to be to resist that force. Which of course, will mean that he starts to resist and pull away from you. That's the opposite of what you want to happen, so don't try and make it happen with too much effort. If done right, you can make him feel like it is his decision to want that commitment and you can secretly know that you have helped him along.

2. To get him to commit to you, he has to feel that he may lose you at some point.

If your man knows that he has you and that no matter what, you are not going anywhere any time soon, what is the compelling reason that will make him want to commit to you? Answer: There is none. While you don't want to make any threats of leaving him or anything like that, you do want to give him the impression that you are not his forever by default.

3. When he knows that you really are the best match for him, he will want you even more.

One of the great things about not being too controlling or jealous of a woman is, you give your man the opportunity to realize that you really are the best match up for him. If you try to control him or come across as being the jealous kind of woman, he's going to start to get the feeling that maybe you are not the one. That is when he is much more likely to want to stray from the relationship or to keep his "freedom."