Monday, May 9, 2011

Are You A Women Dealing With A Guy With Commitment Issues? Here Is Exactly How To Get Him To Commit



Men with commitment problems have their own complexes that they present to any women they are with. A woman who hasn't been with a guy like this, understands that it's not easy to be with a guy like this. If you really love the guy, it's much more difficult, because it takes a lot of patience and extra work to make him do something he's not comfortable doing. There is a strategy that will help women in this tough position. If you man has told you that marriage isn't something he sees, don't worry because that doesn't mean a thing...

The most sabotaging thing women can do in a relationship with a guy who has problems committing, is nag him about getting more serious. Just as a small child will resist you when you try and take something away from him, a man is much the same. The more he feels pressure into taking further steps, the more he will resist and refuse to honor your wishes. Men in this predicament must be handled in a specific way. This requires avoiding from the topic of marriage, or anything more than dating.

Another effective thing you can do is make yourself less available, and start using the scarcity factor. When a guy can see his girl anytime he pleases, he starts taking time with her for granted. All his needs are met and he is satisfied with the way the situation currently is. He has no reason to change anything. So, if you want to start making things different, start making yourself occupied with new hobbies and interests. Go on a short getaway for the weekend with some of your friends and don't give him much detail about what your doing. This will startle him a little and this little thing alone can make the relationship change dramatically.

There are certain things any women can say and do to a guy to put a spell on him and force him to commit. If you really feel this is the man for you, then you can do certain things immediately to make things exactly the way you want them.



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