Saturday, May 7, 2011

Clues for How to Get the Girl of Your Dreams Back



Firstly, try to get her to talk to you. You make the move to bridge the gap that has developed. What are the things that matter to you both, and what are the things that bother both of you? Was your relationship one of those where she did most of the talking? Then it's high time you started to verbally communicate. I know that for some men this is very difficult but it has to happen. You must keep the communication going. This is a major key to a relationship. With technology the way it is today, there is access to email and text messaging. What is wrong with the good old tried and true method of sending her some flowers? This might be difficult to do if you are naturally unromantic but the effort will be greatly appreciated by your girl if you really want her back. I'm sure she would love you to send her a card with the flowers and tell her just what she does mean to you.

Secondly, remember the important numbers to her. She will secretly be waiting for you to call her. What about her family's birthdays? She will place a great deal of importance on these dates and her phone numbers, and other numbers which you will or should be aware of that are meaningful to her. If you forgot her birthday or the date you officially started to go together, surprise her by remembering next time. Once you master the date thing and remembering when the significant relationship dates are you will be sure to get her back. If you can't remember the dates, figure out ways to find out. Ask her family, secretly of course, and her friends.

Thirdly, make sure you don't become a stalker! Communicate but don't hound her with phone calls, especially in the middle of the night. These might have the opposite effect of what you want and freak her out. She may begin to think that your are creepy instead of sincere.

Fourthly, spend time improving yourself. You are probably doing this already by making the extra efforts to do the things you wouldn't normally do. Don't get into the "blame game" by looking at what started the break up. That's all been and gone.

Fifthly, look now for the positives. What were the things that brought you together in the first place? What are the things that you had in common with each other? Are these still there? Forget about the negatives and what tore things apart and work on what to build on. The arguments are never worth it in the long run.

Finally, have a positive mental attitude. Really believe that things will be great in the end. This is not always easy to do especially if you are a bit on the pessimistic side but it's worth it. If you really want the girl of your dreams back, you will need to work on yourself.



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