Monday, May 9, 2011

Have Issues Getting Your Man To Commit? Here Are Ways To Get Him To Fall Deeply And Do Anything



Have you totally fallen for a guy and are frustrated thinking about when he will finally feel the same way about you? Are you fearful that if he doesn't commit to you soon, someone may come into his life and steal him away from you? If you can't fathom the possibility of being without this guy long-term, here are some incredible tips that all the most seductive and successful women use to captivate any man that are proven...

To start with, you must give him reason to commit. There is only one way to do this. Urgency. Not in the sense of forcing him to marry you. You actually want to do the complete reverse. Back away, and let him have space. Not much is required, but enough to where he sees what he will be missing.

It's simple for people to take for granted something they feel is already theirs. In your case, he most certainly feels like you are already his, and so takes you for granted. This guy feels no real desire to commit, because there's no reason for him to. With that being said, things are going well and his needs are currently being met, so why change a good thing right? So you could get angry at him for feeling this way, but you won't accomplish anything this way. This is simple human nature.

What you really want to do is give him reasons to start thinking about the pain of loss. That's right, the pain of not being with you. During this time, find an interest or activity you enjoy, and start investing your time doing this thing. Chances are that you might be so into this guy, and he is taking you for granted, because you are always around and available. Well, that will have to start changing very quickly ok? Don't go to the extent of completely ignoring him, but distance yourself from him a little and see if he has a desire to keep close to you.

The last thing I want to say is, when you are in company with him, make sure you relax and enjoy time with your man. Even if you aren't with him in the end, you might look back on this experience and realize that you missed out on a lot of good opportunities and possibilities, because you were worrying so much about the outcome, and compromised just having a good time. Look, it's great to have huge hopes and high expectations, but not to the point where it starts to put a stress on the relationship. Just let go a little enjoy yourself, and by doing so you will make him feel as good about you as possible.



0 comments:

Post a Comment