Saturday, May 7, 2011

Discussing The Next Step Of Your Relationship



It is common to meet with men who have no interest in longtime commitments. All they want is a one night fling or a couple of meetings with the woman which will stop the moment he meets a greener pasture so to speak.

In this venture you may still meet some serious men who are looking for a woman to date with the long term goal of getting married to her. It is only natural that you wish to get married at some point in time. This being the case, the rules employed should be different from the one who just want s a woman for a day or two.

Assuming you have your choice for a future wife, it is good to advance your discussions from just the attractions and flirting to a more serious and permanent chats. This is meant to know each other better. As you do this, avoid majoring on material things.Labor to know her heart and personality more.

It is not wise to assume on matters, so get to knowing if the woman you wish to marry is of the same opinion. Otherwise you may be wasting your precious time with her if her thoughts are not in that direction.

If a woman is not interested in a long term relationship will find it difficult to disclose her life to you-she will be secretive on the issue. She may not commit herself to be dated in a more sober place like the restaurants and such like places.

It is good to move on with marriage discussions with the woman as soon as you have established that she is of the idea and someone you could see yourself with for many years to come. With this assurance, you can start discussing on marriage ideas and topics with the woman of your choice and move from there.

The first thing to be wary of is the woman's consent. But first you should ensure that your heart it in agreement that she is the woman of your choice. Date her and start on a casual tone then move it to a serious note as you progress on.

Women like men who are bold enough to make major decisions on life issues after thinking about them for a while. They hate being with non committal men. If you are as bold, then many women will always find you more appealing because they like that take charge attitude.



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