Men Scared of Commitment - The Hidden Clues

Not all men are ready to get serious. They have their reasons. You must know that before you invest your emotions, weigh the situation first. Just because he's acting sweet it may not mean he's ready to take the next step. As much as you're happy when you're with him, don't fall too fast for his charm. Be careful of men scared of commitment. If you want to date someone who could possibly want a relationship with you, read the clues. Save yourself from guys who do not want to move in the same direction as you. Watch out for the following signs.

He distances himself. When he starts to feel that your relationship is getting deeper, he'll start to back out. He doesn't enjoy intimate conversations. He doesn't want to be so involved in your life. Yes, he might be a good listener. But deep down he's building a wall. He might not want to hurt you. But at the same time, he doesn't want to care about you so much.

He freaks out when you introduce him to your family. Family plays a vital role in your life, he knows that. If you try to set up a dinner date with your family, he'll make an excuse. He wouldn't want to go. He's plainly not interested in meeting the important people in your life.

He doesn't want to talk about the future. Obviously, you're not a part of his plans. When you start opening up about the future, most likely he'll give you vague responses. He will never give you details because he knows he won't be with you for a long time. He'll change the topic and make you feel that he doesn't want to settle down any time soon.

He wants to see other women. He'll date you non-exclusively. He'll encourage you to meet other men. When you're not together, he's probably out on a date with somebody else. Their most famous line would be "we're just having fun" or the classic, "we're just friends".

He doesn't make himself always available. He doesn't want you to depend on him. Even if you tell him that you need him, he'll make lame excuses to not be there. He doesn't like emotional attachment. He's already built a wall around him. He'll only show up when he feels like it.

He hasn't said the three magic words. He will never say "I love you" to you. You're not even sure if he believes in the word "love". He feels that saying it means he's committing himself to you. So, don't expect to hear these words from him.

He hasn't introduced you to his friends and family. These people are important to him. If he introduces you to his friends and family, he would perceive it as taking the leap. He's too scared to think about bringing you to his home and meeting his parents.