How to Tell If a Guy Is Not Serious About You? Learn How to Test His Level of Commitment for You

As a woman who's in love with a man, it is but normal for you to want a date that takes you seriously. Wouldn't it be painful to learn that you're just a pastime to your current beau? If you want to know how serious he is with you and your relationship then be ready to read some signs.

His every move is about sex, sex, and sex.

This guy won't even care to date you out unless you assure him that you're going to have sex with him later. It's as clear as daylight - this man wants nothing but your body.

He has issues when it comes to coming out in the open.

He will cunningly make excuses to not go public with your relationship. You'll also have a hard time holding his hand during those rare chances that you get to go out with him. This man's agenda is clearly something else and that's definitely not commitment.

He looks down on you.

This man will have a hard time respecting you because, clearly, he doesn't regard you highly. Since you're unimportant, he wouldn't even care what you think about how he treats you. To him, you're just another woman in his life that he could kick to the curb once he's done with you.

He never refers to you as his girlfriend.

When you accidentally get to meet his friends, he will never even have the guts to introduce you as the girl he dates. All he mentions is your name and that's it. He won't even say that you're his someone special or his date.

Your future with him is bleak.

If you talk about the future with this guy, he'll want to deviate to another topic or he'll talk briefly about it just to satisfy your urge to discuss. But you will never - ever - get a clear response when it comes to his future plans.

Does he care about what you want?

Has it all about him and what he wants? Did this guy even bother to ask what your future plans are? Is he interested in you as a person? Or are you just another piece of meat to him?

He'll pretend that he's not in good terms with his parents.

And he does this so that you won't even bother to get to know them. Of course, if you think that he has an existing rift with them, then you won't even want to go to their place and be introduced to them.