Thursday, May 5, 2011

How to Know When a Man Wants to Commit - 10 Signs He May Be Ready to Settle Down



There are signs that a man wants to commit and settle down with you. When a man is thinking of you long term, there are ways to tell that he wants to commit.

1. He says "we" often without really thinking about it and projects it into the future. Maybe there is vacation he takes every year, but now he says, "When we go on vacation this year", not "when I go on vacation this year".

2. He agrees and even expects to accompany you to events such as weddings and family outings.

3. He is good to your friends. If he cares what your friends think and does things to help them without you asking, this is a sure sign he is ready to settle down.

4. He does things like goes to the grocery store with you, for you. He shops with you on occasion.

5. He is wanting to commit if he makes comments to you about not sharing you or marks his territory when another man shows interests. It may be something simple like grab your hand or put his arm around you.

6. A man that is wanting to settle down will start to be concerned more about his future. He wants to be able to contribute and provide.

7. Another way to know a man wants to commit is when he does things for you that he doesn't have to. Change a light bulb, take out your trash, take your car to the shop. When a man loves a woman he wants to help her.

8. He really wants to be a great lover to you. He puts your sexual needs before his own and takes the time to do what makes you happy, including romance.

9. If a man stays in consistent contact with you and shares his day with you, he sees you as someone he is ready to settle down with.

10. If the subject of marriage comes up when you are with others and he doesn't avoid it like the plague and may even make positive comments about it, there is a sure sign a man wants to commit.

There are many many signs, but basically if he is present in your life and includes you in his, he is not a commitment phobic. If he sincerely shows actions that have your happiness in mind, he may be ready to settle down.



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