How to Keep a Man Interested - 3 Ways to Affair-Proof Your Relationship

Dating in today's world can seem tricky. You may tell yourself that you do not like to play games, but often find yourself caught up in someone's game. Knowing how to keep a man interested is knowing how to play the game, like it or not.

So many times women feel that they have what it takes to keep a man interested in her, but so few times do they actually know what they are doing. Yes, there are instances when women get what they want, but do you want to go at it blindly or would you rather know what you are doing to ensure the right result? Getting a guy to agree to commit to you is one thing. Keeping him interested and keeping him from wanting to stray is another. Make sure that you do not make these three mistakes when learning how to keep a man interested.

• Do not fall into such a deep rut that you no longer appear to be interesting. When you first captured your guy's heart, there was something about you that kept his fire burning. Maybe you were outgoing, or took initiative when planning dates. Whatever it was, you had his attention. It is so easy for things around you to become comfortable and fall into a habit. It is also easy for a man to get bored with habit if you do not do what you did to capture him. Keep the spark alive by continuing to plan spontaneous dates or whatever it was that caught him in the first place.


• Do not forget about your appearance. Ladies, do you remember when you had your eye on a guy and you wanted to capture his attention? You probably stood in front of the mirror for at least an hour making sure your make-up was straight. Either that or you went through every possible combination of clothing in your closet until you felt like you just had nothing to wear that would impress him. Now, don't get me wrong. Men are not always big on lots of make-up and the latest fashions, but you should still take your appearance into consideration like you did when you first got him. Learning how to keep a man interested is knowing how to flaunt what you have at all times.


• Do not turn into a mother figure. By all means, do not! Learn to pick your battles. The more you nag about every little thing, the more you will actually push the guy away. Make sure that you are giving compliments and that they outweigh your nagging. Men like to feel like a hero and a provider. Nagging only makes him feel incompetent and useless.