Monday, May 2, 2011

Advice on Relationships: How to Keep a Woman Happy



Are you aware of the dos and don'ts in making a woman clinging unto you? Read on, and learn the basic steps...

You should always be yourself, avoid pretending to be somebody you are not, that's my advice to start this. Some men are turning to pretensions as their best way to make a beautiful woman fall for him but that shouldn't be the case. What the pretty women and ladies in general find very sexy in a man is his confidence. You can observe that most men who are not that attractive are able to make pretty women fall for them, because they are oozing with confidence which the girls mostly find to be more striking than the handsomeness of a man.

Then, you can invest on little gifts. By thinking of the woman through giving her her favourite food every time, or helping her in her chores like taking care of her car by bringing it to the mechanic can really be working in showing her your affection. You sometimes consider bigger things and expensive ones to give her because you think that through these, it will help the relationship to grow, but little things are the ones that really matter.

That advice above and this one really connect with each other: you should learn to appreciate your girl. She should be aware that you care for her and make her feel that she's the most precious gift God has ever given you.

Another advice is to just focus your attention on her when you two are together. Do not ever think of taking a glance at other women, because women usually think that if their boyfriend or partners will set eyes on other women, their men are comparing them to the other girl. Women in relationships will not accept the fact that as men lives, they continue to look at beautiful creatures. Women cannot understand that because if they are attached, it is natural for them to just focus on their partners, they usually think of longer terms of relationships with the men they are with and think of the future. It is completely natural for women, that's how they are. Then, stop looking at other women particularly if you are with her. This is also a great advice in wooing her as your plan to be back with the ex.

Humour is one way that most men use in getting through the heart of the women. There are men who are really into the beauty of the woman, but a woman falls mainly on how the man is making her laugh. So, to keep the relationship fired up, do not stop on giving your girl the reason to smile and laugh.

Then, you should try to find for the thing that you two have in common. It's a good thing that there is something that you both enjoy doing like a hobby or some kind, but it will be very helpful if you try to learn to love the thing that she loves the most. If she likes this kind of movie, you can learn to appreciate it also. This simply means that you are ready to go along the way with her and she will realize that you are different from anyone else.

It doesn't mean that if you two are already in a relationship, you should stop in trying to smell good and look good. When women choose humour over looks, it doesn't mean that you should stop shaving and look like a homeless person. Be updated of what's in in fashion. You should try to look good every time, especially if your girlfriend is very fashionable. You should be conscious of how you look, do not settle for less thinking that you've already got her, anytime, you can lose her.

A woman relies mainly on how her friends or family say to her about her relationships. So it would be better for you to take an extra effort in getting to know them and befriend them. You can take an extra effort in making a positive impact on her parents. A woman usually considers her partner to be already a part of her circle of friends.

You should also be aware that women have a lot of hormonal changes. Women usually become misinterpreted by their partners or other men when they do not know that women have that unique feature which is sometimes misunderstood by other people. So always be receptive to her feelings.

Lastly, you should be able to accept and seek for things that won't cause boredom. During the early times of your relationship, you are always ecstatic of the new things that are happening between the two of you, but then, when you get used to it, things just become usual and don't elicit the same spark during the first times. With this kind of result, try to look for something that will get you excited. This will aid your relationship to become stronger. And this can also be a good tip for you if you're in the process to be back with the ex.

These ten tips, even without this kind of list, you can learn by yourself because these are all doable and will surely make you and your partner can't get enough of each other or you will be able to get back with ex. I was once a victim of the "taking my girlfriend for granted" attitude but I was able to resurrect myself through T 'Dub' Jackson's book "The Magic of Making Up". The book was really instrumental in helping me through the common sense steps; we were able to get our relationship fuelled up. I was also able to develop my attitude towards my friends, colleagues, and family due to using of the common sense advices.

Go grab yourself a copy of "The Magic of Making Up" for a fuller version.



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