Selfish Tips For Winning Back Your Ex

After rejection a woman may feel confused, depressed and unattractive. The disappointment and pain may show up in all areas of her life. For example, she may not take as much pride in her personal appearance. Getting out of bed becomes a chore. Keeping up with her work outs, friends and family are temporarily forgotten. Without realizing it, women set themselves up for further rejection by giving in to this type of apathy. You can't make him love you if he chooses otherwise. But you can give him reason to question his decision just by doing 3 simple things:

Making Your Ex Regret The Breakup

1. Create scarcity.

Do not make yourself available to him. If he wants to see or hear from you he will have to put forth great effort. Messages sent through friends should be met with silence. Do not give them anything they can go back with that may stroke his ego or verify your pain. But DO be sure you are looking and behaving your best. So what if you're still upset. Fake it until it becomes easier and more natural. The goal is to communicate that you not only survived the breakup but you're better than ever! Soon your ex will want to see evidence for himself. Which is great! But the time of meeting will be of your choosing.

2. Learn To Be Selfish.

During your time away from relationships do make every effort to improve yourself. If you need to lose weight now is the perfect time to start that new diet or fitness regimen. Consider trying a new hairstyle or temporary color. By all means don't do anything permanent in this state. Stick to small physical improvements that make you feel great. Take time to focus on relationships and hobbies you may have neglected along the way. Or throw yourself into a new project at work. The praise and recognition from each of these things serves as verification of your awesome qualities. Soon you will begin to exude irresistible confidence. Folk will want what you have. Drawn to the new you like flies to honey.

3. Give Your Ex A Goal.

You don't want all your hard work to go to waste, right? Nor do you want to lose the positive effects of the changes you've made for want of love. So the last thing you need to do is give your Ex a goal. Something you need to see, feel or have as proof of their commitment. Without an outward indicator of his or her love you are playing a dangerous game. Establishing a goal gives you the piece of mind needed to create a second chance for romance.