Facing Your Fear of Commitment

You love the way he looks at you. You love the way his eyes crinkle when he smiles. When you are not with him, you cannot help but miss him.

You want to make a lifelong commitment with him. You want your dating relationship to shape into something that lasts and is secure.

If this is happening to you, then you are in love with this guy. You need to consider a few things. See if he is ready to commit to anyone. Sometimes, guys are afraid of commitment. Pushing them too hard for it makes them nervous. In such a case, they might want to end the relationship.

If your guy is not ready for this, then make him see that you are really worth him. Be very supportive. Remember, the thing that got you so interested him is his caring attitude.

Same goes for guys. You need to make him feel that you care a lot for him. However, you should not suffocate him with attention. Let things be, and they will go your way. You need only make him see that you are always there for him. Who would want to miss a chance with such caring woman?

None of this means that you have to suffer silently. Make your intentions to enter into a long lasting relationship clear to him. He ought to know what is on your mind. You also need to make it clear that you have some patience to give him the time to decide. Do not play it excessively cool.

Have you ever heard of the saying that if you really love someone, let them go. If they are yours, they will come back. If not, then it was not meant to be. Do not hold onto something too tightly.

Allow things to run their due course. All you should do is giving it your best. Results will surely come out in your favor.