You Wouldn't Have Thought This: Ultimate Secret Of Making Men Fall In Love And Want To Commit To You

What's one of the most destructive things women engage in in relationship? Wondering.

Wondering what he thinks, is doing, where he is, whom he meets/sees, if he still loves you, misses you, why he hasn't called/texted back... It goes downhill from there. Stop it... don't be a "Wonder Woman," get your mind preoccupied, even by watching junk like Keeping Up With The Kardashians or Jersey Shore. That's better than fueling self-doubts into yourself.

That's why don't get exclusive till he commits. Don't hang your sanity on one man and be at his mercy. Exclusivity without commitment rarely works for women. It always drive both parties crazy. Why is that?

Exclusivity doesn't mean commitment. It doesn't mean much in fact. Of course it feels good when we know he's not seeing/sleeping with someone else when he's seeing us. But it also limits your options. Women always tend to focus her psychic energy on relationship much more than men. Because he's the only one we're having right now, he's also the only one we focus all our desires, emotional needs fulfillment and affection on and men often find this very smothering.

So the effect is instead of drawing him closer and wanting to commit, he's repelled by what he perceives as your needy and clingy behavior and insecurity. We often can't help that behavior when we put all our eggs in one basket.

So next time you're wondering again, go out with those great men you met online and practice your feminine magnetism. You'll be happier and he'll start to wonder why you've been acting so cool.

And without commitment, he can -and will- end up his relationship to you once he finds someone better for him. And you're going to be left in the dump, broken hearted and feeling used. On the other hand, when you keep your options open, you'll come across very mature, confident, content and goddess-like to him. That means you will be much more irresistible to him in ways more than one. In his eyes you are a high-valued woman who is fun to be with and he can't wait to always spend more time with you. Again and again.

And when he knows you're in demand and won't wait around for him, he'll also find you much more desirable. Now he needs to step up his game, otherwise you'll be snatched away.

Scarcity works both in marketing and dating (which is basically marketing yourself to most suitable suitor). It's a timeless law of nature.