What to Do If You Are Wondering How to Get Your Boyfriend to Propose

First of all, I'm sorry you're even having to read this article. If you're searching for information about how to get your boyfriend to propose, my heart goes out to you. His inability to commit to your relationship surely brings painful feelings and it can even put you in an awkward situation. You might even be to the point where you've begun to wonder if staying in the relationship is right for you, or if moving on would be the best thing for both of you. But the good news is, if you're in this position, there is help. We can actually discover what it is that causing him to drag his feet and find answers to your questions. Just knowing what it is that's holding him back from committing will give you the ability to talk with him about and resolve the concerns that he is feeling.

More good news, it's not typically very hard to figure out why a guy won't propose. There are just a handful of reasons that are almost universal. First, he may have some notion in his head that there is only one exactly perfect woman in the world for him and he's still trying to figure out if you're that woman. In this situation you may here him make statements that reveal doubts about the relationship lasting for years down the road. In this scenario you may be best to start guarding your feelings as to not give him more than you're going to get back. You may even want to take your relationship activities down a level (I'm talking about physical aspects as well as others). He needs to know that he can't have the best of both worlds...a close friend who also gives him everything a wife would. He needs to understand that some things simply are just not going to available to him unless there is a long-term relationship on hand.

Have you already been talking to your boyfriend about marriage, asking him about it all the time, making it a daily topic? It sounds silly, but by doing so you've made the idea yours and not his. He may now see proposing as only doing something just because you want it. Now you've got him in a position that he feels like he can't win, causing him to drag his feet until he gets enough time to make it his own idea. Again, how to get your boyfriend to propose in this situation is pretty straightforward. He needs time and space. Forget all the commitment talk and start taking time to enjoy some of your own personal interests. Get involved in things that don't involve him and allow him to the same. He'll start seeing things about you that originally attracted him to you and realize that marriage doesn't mean the end of doing things separately as well. With this time and space, and allowing him the ability to think of marriage on his own terms, it might not take long before he surprises by pulling out that ring you've been wanting to see for so long.