Knowing Who to Marry and If the Timing Is Right

Getting married is a big decision and should not be taken lightly. Many times knowing who to marry and making the right choice can become a drawn out situation. Is there any way you can really know who to marry and if the timing will ever be right?

Sometimes when you have been in a relationship for a long time you start to take each other for granted. You are so in tune with each other that you don't have to ask questions, you just know the right thing to do and when to do it.

Problems occur when you decide it is time to make a change in your relationship. This often happens if you are thinking about getting married after having been together for a number of years. The thought of marriage can make you look at your relationship differently and make you wonder if you are marrying the right person. How do you know who to marry?

What you must remember is that you currently trust and love this person. Now is not the time to start doubting that. Marriage should be contemplated as a way of making your relationship stronger together. It should not be making you think about ending your time together.

Yes, marriage can be seen as scary, but only because it echoes of permanency. If you have been happy together as a couple then this should be seen as a step towards the future. Building a home together and possibly bringing a family into this world.

It is perfectly normally and healthy to wonder about who to marry and if you are making the right choice. There is never a perfect time to get married unless you have special circumstances. Reasons which you would delay getting married would be if you have family that live overseas and you have to ensure that they are able to make it for your wedding.

Otherwise just pick the time of year you would like to get married and start making arrangements. While making your wedding plans you should have no doubts about who to marry anymore, and should enjoy this once in a life time experience.

If you find yourself really debating about who to marry and why, then you need to take a step back and look at your relationship more closely. What is it that is making you have so much doubt? You will have to be brutally honest with yourself. Once you have pinpointed the reason, you will have a much better understanding about why you are worrying about who to marry.

You may not like your answer at all. Possibly you have been keeping up appearances in a relationship just to have company or because it was the easy way out. Now that the time has come to possibly make this relationship permanent, the worries and fears are coming out.

You will need to face the situation and be honest with your partner. It will then be much easier to know who to marry and that the time is in fact perfect.