Why Men Dump Women - 4 Main Reasons

So you are in a relationship and things seem to be going fine then all of a sudden he says he wants to break up. Even if you felt it was coming, it hurts but, did you know, there might be something you can do about it. If you see any of these signs correct them, they are the biggest reasons why men dump women.

Breaking up is never easy for either partner and can cause a lot of pain and other feelings. While women are pretty complex creatures men are not so complicated and a woman might be able to prevent the break up. At the same time, a man can make sure a woman knows his needs and he too can prevent a break up.

Men dump women for a variety of reasons but there are specific things that can be prevented, if you know what to look for, ahead of time.

Here are the top four reasons of why men dump women:

1. Needy: The number one reason is a woman turns out to be clingy. In the dating stages of a relationship you might not have a lot of expectations and are happy to spend time together. As time goes by you both find time to be with your friends again and spend less time together you are comfortable. When you are single there's no one to ask where you are going or when you will be back. A man wants to be the breadwinner and he wants his family to be able to depend on him for most things, but he needs a strong woman that can stand beside him and trust him. Men put a lot of pressure on themselves and there is no room for an insecure woman.

2. Communication or a Lack of it: Men are not usually good at communicating their feelings and a woman must stay vigilant to get him to open up. If there is no communication, there is room for misunderstanding and that can lead to a lot of arguing.

3. The Mothering Instinct: Women have a stronger tendency to be in control of their surroundings. They may, perhaps unconsciously, begin to do this to their man, questioning and trying to set limits about spending time with his friends or watching tv and other things. A man can help by being independent, taking care of himself and staying active in the relationship and around the house. A man should be an active partner not a responsibility.

4. No Fun To Hang Out With: In the beginning stages of dating it's fun and everyone has a good time. But then things change, being together every free minute is a little boring especially when you have things that you would rather, or need to do.

Many times we get into a relationship hoping, we can change something about the other person. When a relationship starts under these conditions things don't usually turn out well. There are some things in life we just can't do anything about.