Thursday, May 5, 2011

How to Make a Man Commit - 3 Proven Tips



After how many dates, you start realizing that you're really into him. It may be hard to know whether he's on the same page. As much as you are dying to know, you have to slow down first. Maybe you are now wondering what you can do to make a man commit. The decision is still up to the guy. But there's something you can do to make him feel that he can commit to you.

Women have this idea that men have commitment phobia. This is not entirely true. A guy might want to have fun by not dating exclusively. But once he finds a woman who is hard to let go, he would consider committing.

There are things that you can do to make him want to commit. Men can sometimes be elusive when talking about commitment. But at the back of their minds, they are open to it. They are just waiting for the right woman who deserves their commitment.

Your relationship may or may not go deeper. A guy will only take it to the next level if he feels that you're going somewhere. Make him feel that you are serious about him and your budding relationship. Here are the three proven tips to make a man commit.

1. Listen more, talk less. Women talk a lot. It's a fact. Women are never hesitant to speak their minds. As emotional beings, women can be overwhelmed by it and they speak about how they feel. But if you want a guy to commit to you, listen more and talk less. Your guy also has stories to tell. You may not know it, but he might be going through something. Don't miss on asking him about his day. Men appreciate this because it's like you are letting them know that they can talk to you. Men are not known to be expressive. But when they feel that they can trust you, they start to open up.

2. Don't try to change him. Men are driven away by women who are control freaks. Never try to change your man. You can talk to him about certain things, but never attempt to change him. Let him change his ways on his own. Do not impose that you want him to be like this or that. He will definitely be turned off if you keep on bossing him around. Make him feel that you accept him for what he is.

3. Don't push him to commit. As much as you hate to wait, you have to walk his pace. Do not make the mistake of forcing him to have the "commitment" talk. Avoid asking him where your relationship is going or if he is serious about you. Let him open up about the topic when he's ready. The more you push him to commit, the more likely that he'll stay away from you.

Men take commitment seriously and that's why they are careful in leading the women they date on. It is not because they want to play around. They just want to be sure that they can make a deeper relationship with you work.



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